Did your spouse step up once you were married?

He is right...you aren't completely committed and should keep your finances separate....Yes my husband definitely stepped up to the plate...He is the sole provider for our family...because he and I both agreed that I would be a SAHM to our beautiful little girl....I handle all the finances...pay all the bills and put money aside into our savings....and I give him an allowance...LOL It has worked out great!