Does anyone else have a hard time finding sincerity w/ girls to the point where it prevents you from letting?

when the time comes you'll find the person you're meant to be with when your not looking. im a virgin and im 19 and im waiting for marriage. im also a christian. it may be hard and you may get tired but think like this as soon as you throw in the towel that person you're suppose to be with comes into you're life and you can't even be with them. just have some patience and wait on god. god bless.